Why Do I Do Boudoir Photography?

I'm often asked how I got into boudoir photography. I've had my own photos done several times, and I fell in love with the idea of bringing the experience to other women.

I feel that with Boudoir photography it really opens women up to who they are, how strong they are, and how brave they are. We’re often made to feel small and there is just soooo much pressure from the media to look and feel a certain way that it can be extremely overwhelming. And to see, even if it’s just for a moment, the curtain lifted when the women get to see their images for the first time. That realization and the proof that they are amazing is what pulls on my heartstrings.

You are confident. You have it in you. I know you do because I see it come out during my sessions. I pull it out of you! When you are confident, you are beautiful, stunning, fierce and unstoppable. You could have clothes on and still gain the same experience out of this photo session. What you wear (or don’t wear) doesn’t matter – it’s just the icing on top. What matters is finding it in yourself to feel like you are feminine and enough.

A boudoir session is a life-changing event. It will alter the way you see yourself in the best way possible.

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Why Do a Boudoir Session?

Many women think a boudoir session is just not for them, that boudoir is for soon-to-be-brides or gorgeous young women who can pose and strut their stuff like models. But boudoir is so much more than lingerie and sexy posing. Boudoir is about seeing yourself from a different perspective and finding power and strength in who you are.

There are many different reasons:  birthdays, anniversaries, milestones, but some reasons are much more emotional. 

For example, I had a client schedule a session for her boyfriend and then nearly cancel because she found out he was cheating on her.  I told her to come in anyway because looking good is always the best revenge. 

By the time she came in, they were back together again.  She was choosing to stay as an expression of love and commitment to work on the relationship. 

It was a much needed reminder that she is truly worthy and beautiful.

A boudoir session can be a reminder that the things you believe you "lack" have nothing to do with your spouse or significant other’s actions.

Other women in the same situation come to me because they’re going through a divorce or leave their significant other. Their boudoir session serves as a way to reconnect with themselves and their sexuality.

I've had women come in who have lost a significant amount of weight, but still identify with the "before" weight-loss version of themselves. They still find themselves gravitating to plus-sized clothing and rejecting styles that are body-conscious because they don't feel they can pull them off, but seeing photos of themselves in their new body helps them get comfortable with the idea of being a smaller size.

Still others may come in after they’ve had surgery of some kind .  The boudoir session helps empower them to feel beautiful and whole again.

In a way, a boudoir session is a kind of therapy.  You can funnel your fears and pain into something positive, and more importantly, ART! 

Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

Have you ever wanted to try something you’ve never done before or maybe be someone else for the day? Many women feel boudoir is way outside their comfort zone, but that’s what is so freeing about it! Take a chance and let your guard down. You’ll be so glad you did.

Embrace your age

Boudoir isn’t just for the very young. You deserve to celebrate your beauty at any age, whether it’s 30 or 50. A boudoir session can help you see just how uniquely gorgeous you are.

Boost your confidence

There are plenty of times in your life when you could use a little more confidence, whether it’s moving to a new city or starting a new job. Boudoir photos can be something you can look back on years later to remind yourself of a moment when you were brave and bold. That confidence will definitely come in handy.

It is my firm belief that every woman deserves to feel beautiful, sexy, and stunning. And I would love to help make that happen!

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How To Choose Your Boudoir Photographer

While boudoir has been around for years, it seems to have really exploded over the last few years. With so many photographers to choose from, clients can be overwhelmed with how to select one.

There are several things to look for that will help make the search easier.

First is style. Take a look at the photographer’s body of work. See what I did there? 😉 Would you describe the style as dark with a lot of shadows, lots of black and white shots, or light, airy, and feminine? I do a bit of light and airy as well as dark myself.

Take note of the amount of retouching as well. Some photographers don’t Photoshop at all, while others take a heavier-handed approach. My editing style is to stay true to you, but remove a client’s “perceived flaws”. We discuss the level of retouching you desire when you view your photos.

Second is experience. Your photographer should really specialize in the genre and not just offer it in addition to weddings, or lifestyle portraits. There’s a different approach with boudoir photography and the photos require a certain eye for detail. Also, note if there are a range of body types represented. I’ve been photographing ladies since 2009 so I’ve photographed nearly every body type there is.

What types of products does your photographer offer? You should be doing something with your images besides letting them sit on your hard drive. First of all, you’ll appreciate them more if you display them, and secondly, they can be subject to file corruption or outright lost on a hard drive. Your photographer should offer heirloom quality products printed at a professional lab. After all, you probably don’t want a teenage boy at your local drugstore printing your intimate photos.

How is their customer service? Do they respond within one business day, or text you back right away? I usually respond to most inquiries within 24 hours or less, and try to respond ASAP if I get a text from a booked client. Additionally, I make every effort to inform clients on turnaround time on their products.

Make sure you’ve at least done a phone consult with your photographer. You should make sure they are easy to talk to. After all, you’re going to be getting naked, or nearly naked in front of this person. You want to make sure that he /she understands your vision, if you have one, and feel confident this photographer can capture it for you. These are things that you won’t know if you converse solely through text or an email.

Lastly, is price. It’s not the least important but should be last in priority of consideration because the investment with boudoir is almost a case of “You-get-what-you-pay-for.” For many women, a boudoir session may be a once-in-a-lifetime experience. It’s not something that should be scrimped on. There’s a lot of work and preparation that goes into a boudoir session, along with post-production. I offer clients a range of payment plans to make it more affordable.

I’d love to chat with you over the phone for a few minutes if you think, we’d be a good fit.

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Booty Call! Most Popular Backside Shots

I’ve seen a lot of different bodies and booties over the years, and subsequently, learned how to showcase the posterior in all its glory!

And you don’t need a flawless booty to be able to do these poses. Big, small, flat, round, cellulite or none: I can make ‘em all look good!

Give a Statement Piece of Wall Art this Valentine's!

If you REALLY want to gift your Valentine an unforgettable gift, give him something he or she will see everyday. Albums are lovely, but a statement piece of wall art really keeps you top of mind!

You can go with one large piece over the headboard, or a grouping. You’re not limited to hanging your art in just the master bedroom, or over the headboard either.

I also offer fine art metals, which are aluminum and don’t rust, so you can hang your art in the bathroom too!

Give your gift an extra special touch by writing a letter to your significant other, telling them why you made this portrait, and how much he or she means to you, and attach it to the back of the art before gifting.

Or better yet, give yourself the gift of wall art. Doing a boudoir session just for you is the best reason to do one. Write a letter and tuck it behind the wall art for your children or grandchildren to find. There’s no shame in letting them know you embrace your femininity. Set a positive example!

Wall art doesn’t have to be sexual, or explicit. I always make sure that there’s a few shots that are classy, timeless, and sometimes anonymous, for the purpose of making wall art.

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